Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Good evening everyone. My wife and I have recently started our FEMDOM journey and are loving it these past four weeks. I can share the backstory later, but Misses has allowed me to post here seeking advice for my new chastity device. I bought two devices from the naughty store that I’d call “novelty,” plus one online.

NOTE: NO URETHRA USE The first was an Asylum Chastity device with a 2” A ring.

As this was my first unit, I quickly learned within the first week how crucial the A ring is for comfort and security. The 2” ring felt too large because it kept sliding down, forcing me to constantly adjust it and pull it up close to my stomach. I also noticed several “Pinch Points” that caused random discomfort, likely due to how the A ring wraps around and hinges shut.

I explained this to Misses, who approved a second purchase. I ordered the “JAIL CELL STEEL CHASTITY” which is what I’m wearing now. This one features a SOLID A ring that doesn’t hinge AND includes 2”, 1.75”, and 1.5” A rings available. I thought my problems were solved; the design was appealing, and it seemed like it would have fewer pinch points—which it does. However, my new dilemma is sizing: I can barely push a nut through the 1.5” ring (too small), while the 2” still feels too big. The 1.75” seems to be in between; I keep adjusting it just like I did with the 2”, and it keeps sliding down.

So… I decided to wrap electrical tape around the base of the 1.75” A ring to “tighten it up.” It works, but now I wake up in some discomfort. I wouldn’t call it “pain,” but it’s definitely noticeable. During nocturnal erections, my cock pushes the entire cage assembly downward, and the A ring chokes my nuts (if that makes sense), feeling very tight. Only when I wake up and relax can I pull it back into place to relieve pressure and feel normal again. I’ve seen “custom” devices online, but I’m not ready to spend thousands just yet.

So, what is everyone else doing to handle this issue? Can I manage with what I have? I hope my story makes sense; any feedback would be appreciated. I look forward to joining this group and plan on being a long term chastity wearer. A custom device seems to be in my future, just not right now. What do you think? Thanks!