Female led relationships discussion

I intend to keep my chastity device on for the rest of my life, or as long as possible. I haven’t had a keyholder for about a year now, yet I remain in the cage and don’t have any spare keys nearby. I’m searching for a kh—either male or female—who is strict regarding both spanking and keeping me chaste. What is your lifelong approach to chastity? Is it up to you or your partner?