Female led relationships discussion

My Mistress Wife and I have enjoyed male chastity on and off since 2004. Now, a switch has turned on and for the past four months I have been out twice, and the next time out is August and then December for special days in our lives. We have been married for 38 years and she is the love of my life. She is a woman of virtue, very bright, fun personality, and very, very beautiful. I thank my God for her! We have alot of fun in our marriage. Something that she admits struggling with is how to make the chastity experience sort of “fun” for me in T&D. She has me lovingly care for her in many ways, but she has a difficult time thinking up ideas to turn the table on me. So, dear ladies, would you please offer some great advice? Thanks!