Female led relationships discussion

So, this is the second time in recent months that @Thatguyontheinternet has brought up leaving chastity. He can’t quite pinpoint why he wants to leave, but I’m fairly certain it’s because we don’t have clear objectives for what our dynamic provides. I set down rules and punishments, yet he deliberately breaks them just to test if I’ll actually enforce the punishment. More often than not, I let it slide. Being tired in the evenings usually means I drop off much earlier than him. I told him I’d prefer if he simply followed the rules so I wouldn’t have to impose penalties, but as we all know, he isn’t that kind of person; he’s just not a natural submissive. We’re somewhat at a loss regarding whether we should keep going since he is clearly unsatisfied with where things are heading. What do you all think?

IMO he probably just wants a break from it. I know how that feels. I told my wife over a year ago I wanted to quit but there were other reasons. She was a terrible key holder lol. But ever since I still loved chastity and recently have decided to talk to her about starting again. I would say talk it out and see what the problem is. If he wants a break then go for it, but I would put a time line to it so it doesn't get away from you. Life is busy and next thing you know its a year later lol.