Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

I see some posts here where men say they are not submissive and I wonder if it’s just a game to them. I could imagine in six months or a year they will be bored with chastity and switch and want to be the dominant one for a change, for a different kind of sex game. For others (like me) being submissive is not a fetish, it’s a way of life. I could never be dominant to a woman. I have been in the army and police force, I am a dominant man with other men, but I will always serve my Goddess. It’s not wrong to see it as a sex game, I’m just curious to know if others have thought this.