Female led relationships discussion

It’s been Punishment Day (week 3) since @Thatguyontheinternet and I reset. For his sessions, I’ve been using a heavy rubber paddle along with a riding crop. He hasn’t managed to get through the punishment without me pausing so he can catch his breath and compose himself. Thank goodness I gagged him both times; otherwise, the police would have knocked on our door for sure. Today, he proposed we do a quick role reversal. He wanted me to experience what he goes through so I can judge my punishments more accurately. I bent over the bed with my bare bottom exposed and let him use the crop and paddle. He didn’t really want to go ahead with it, but I figured it would aid my learning curve. He began with the rubber paddle, delivering a few quick blows to the same spot. It hurt like crazy. I handle pain well, so I had him watch my face—I stayed silent and only blinked during the strikes. I noticed that the discomfort seemed to peak right after he stopped hitting me. Then I asked him to try the crop on the other cheek in roughly the same area. I could only endure a few of those as well. The pain from the crop was sharper, while the paddle felt more intense overall. He also tried both implements on different parts of my backside and near my hip. Afterward, I had him use my new favorite tool, a leather flogger, across my stomach and back. It wasn’t quite painful, but I could tell it would definitely add up over time during a session. Now I understand why he finds the heavier implements difficult to handle, especially since his pain tolerance seems lower than average. For those who follow our story, you know that I used to absolutely LOVE spankings when we started with me as the submissive and him acting in the dominant role. After it was over (it only lasted MAYBE 5 minutes), we had a chat. Interestingly, I wasn’t turned on at all during his turn—a bit surprising given our history—and he didn’t enjoy dishing out the smacks, though he did want me to feel what it’s like being struck. This experience confirms that we have genuinely achieved a role reversal. I’ll share some photos below showing the results. [[Image: Screen Shot 2017-06-10 at 12.56.03 PM.png]](the referenced community page) [[Image: Screen Shot 2017-06-10 at 12.55.45 PM.png]](the referenced community page)