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For those of us who adore dirty talk, femdom scenarios, and humiliation, I struggle to respond verbally.

Last night she unlocked me for a ride. She began speaking, and it was clear she wanted my input since she kept asking questions. Perhaps this is why being submissive appeals to me; yet often that dynamic gets lost in the mix.

When she asks how her pussy feels or wants me to describe it…it’s like trying to explain a hot bath—wet, warm, pleasant, and so on. There’s so much happening mentally, and honestly, I have to concentrate hard not to climax within ten seconds. It’s tough thinking quickly enough to come up with something sexy or fitting.

Do I say it feels wet, loose, and slippery? That might make her sound too large when really I’m just small. Do I call it super tight? Then she sounds like a prude who rarely has sex. In my head, overthinking takes over, and nothing comes out unless she guides me there with redundant questions like ‘Does it feel good?’

I can instantly think of at least 30 things for her to say that really get me going… I just don’t know how to dirty talk someone who is my domme without sounding like I’m giving orders.

Does anyone else struggle as a sub/bottom because you’re unsure what to say?