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For those who follow my journey, I’ve been evaluating various chastity devices to decide whether to stick with what I own or swap it out for either an…

member_4a7ace589f 8 Sept 2026 #1

For those who follow my journey, I’ve been evaluating various chastity devices to decide whether to stick with what I own or swap it out for either an off-the-shelf model or a custom piece.

I spotted a steel version of the HT on eBay that caught my eye. This led me to ask some questions and sparked quite an email exchange between us. First, let me praise this woman’s command of English; her comprehension is leagues ahead of what I can ever hope to achieve with Chinese.

My main goal was getting one made without those unnecessary vents. Since I’m a grower rather than a shower, the vents seem redundant and take away from the HT’s aesthetic appeal for me.

I also inquired about the device’s dimensions and specifically asked which reference points were used for measurement, as well as what material it was crafted from.


Hello, dear, The all parts is 316 stainless steel . The cage is 5cm to 7cm . Our products are factory uniform production, as shown in the figure. Any questions,please contact us . Best regards . Linx***

I pressed further on where exactly the measurements originated. The latest reply clarified: * Hello, dear, Cage Length: Two thirds of the length of the penis erection minus 30mm The resulting data is more appropriate for the length of the cage Cage size measurement recommendations: with a thin line of elasticity, around the roots of JJ (egg behind, close to the belly of the place), tightened around a circle, and then the length of the length of the line, the length is the circumference, With the circumference divided by 3.14, is equal to the diameter. (Formula: ring diameter = circumference / 3.14 generally choose a little smaller than your diameter out of the clasp, or choose a number of similar value of the ring as well) Best regards . Linx*

Although her mail didn’t directly answer my question, that unsolicited formula for cage length is unique and fascinating. Two thirds of the length of the penis erection minus 30mm It’s intriguing to see it presented so clearly. This suggests a 150mm (6”) penis would fit into a 70mm (2.8”) cage.

After exchanging half a dozen emails, I still haven’t pinpointed exactly where the measurement starts and ends. The rest of her explanation might be tricky for anyone who hasn’t measured for a device before, but she certainly put in a damn good effort.