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My KH @FEMabAC had a trip out of town recently. Before she left she unlocked me, told me to be good and have fun. We have been using chastity for about 9…

member_23fb29b810 8 Sept 2026 #1

My KH @FEMabAC had a trip out of town recently. Before she left she unlocked me, told me to be good and have fun. We have been using chastity for about 9 months in 24/7 intervals. With the longest period being 10 days between a full orgasm for myself. After almost a week she asked me if I was having fun and how many times had I had fun with myself. I told her…8. “But it hasn’t even been a week!” She said. I tried to explain it was like being a kid in a candy store who was never allowed to have candy, but this was not accepted. Without missing a beat she said ” it will be 3 days per offence.” I about dropped the phone, she is usually playful about our chastity. And now I am looking at 24 days, 2.4x my longest lockup! I immediately asked if there was anything I could do to reduce the sentence. After a long pause she told me to lock myself up, as she thought that 8 was already way too much, and send her proof everyday until she gets home (which is another 10 days from now. ) After another pause, She followed by saying “you can trade days for the crop, maybe 5 per day reduction, I haven’t decided.” Again, I was shocked. We have been playing around with spanking and punishment for a few months, and generally my KH really enjoys spanking, but has been hesitant to deal punishments ( the crop) of more than 5-7 swats. And now I was looking at that for a single day! I am still wondering if this is a test? If it was, I failed. In addition, she has a lot of days for me to earn back if she lets me, and I am sure the crop will not be her only trade she proposes. Anyone else had a similar experience, and how did you fair?