Female led relationships discussion

I realize many of us guys are fixated on the dimensions down there, largely because we think we fall short or just barely meet expectations, or maybe even wish for something smaller than what we have. Years back, I took my own measurements while erect and recorded 5.2 inches from the pubic bone to the tip, without pressing into the fat pad. Recently, though, I measured again using that same method and found it at 4.3 inches when hard. Since then, I’ve put on a little extra weight, which seems like the culprit… although not much of it. Could aging cause natural retraction? Regardless, I told my wife I was certain I topped five inches, but our multiple measurements confirmed that 4.3-inch figure. She just laughed; she doesn’t really care either way since we don’t have intercourse and her interest in my size is minimal.