Introductions discussion

Hello everyone. I’ve just registered and wanted to introduce myself. I’ve been lurking in the threads for years, but have finally decided to join up. I’m curious if any of you share a similar motivation for wearing CB’s as me. To give some background: I’m quite controlling and tend to be high-strung in everyday life. I’m not exactly sure what pulled me toward chastity belts, yet there is something thrilling about being locked away and letting go of control for once. Does that sound right? It feels a bit odd putting it into words. Another question I have concerns how to properly start a chastity “session,” if you will call it that. My girlfriend and I recently opened up completely regarding our kinks, which brought this topic forward; she didn’t ignore it but also didn’t say much about it. I’m unsure on the best way to bring it up again with her. Finally, I own three devices (the CB6000, Bon4M, and a full belt from eBay) and would love your thoughts on which feels most secure yet comfortable for long-term wear since I haven’t done much of that yet—it’d help give me a starting point. Do any of you have a “switch” chastity arrangement? I’ve often fantasized about both my girlfriend and myself wearing CB’s, teasing each other relentlessly over days or weeks until we can’t take it anymore. Any advice on how to discuss this dynamic with her would be great too. Anyway, looking forward to chatting with all of you soon and thanks for welcoming me.