Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Right from the start, I want to mention that my testicles are uneven in development. One was surgically lowered when I was a kid and has stayed small compared to its partner. If we compare them by size—say the developed one is like a large grape or small plum—the other is more like a standard marble. This creates a bit of a dilemma for me, making ball trap devices a little tricky to wear continuously. I usually find myself retracting out after some time, sometimes less than a day, but often just over that. My HTv2 ring is already down to 40mm and at first glance seemed suitable. However, the other evening while sleeping, it slipped off entirely which was quite annoying. It doesn’t really hurt so much as irritate when one testicle sits on the wrong side of the ring relative to the rest. Also, the whole device feels misaligned in that position. I’m a single man looking to explore chastity further and would love to hand over my key for an extended period, whether online or otherwise. But with long-term wear being difficult without adjusting or removing it, I wonder if this is feasible. It seems hard just to push the testicle back through; they tend to wobble away somewhere else in the scrotum rather than sliding into the ring opening. So either full removal or simply unlocking and detaching the tube from the ring are my usual fixes. Are penile arch (PA) devices really my only alternative? They seem a bit intense for someone who occasionally locks themselves but wants to experiment more. I usually reserve that level of commitment for people fully immersed in an FLR or similar lifestyle. Also, I have no piercings and am not circumcised, which could add complications. Has anyone else dealt with something similar and can offer advice? Should I accept that maybe this “lifestyle choice” isn’t quite right for me… or dive deeper and opt for a PA? Any thoughts, reflections, or gentle teasing are welcome!:)