Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

This November will celebrate five years since I got my CB6000 and started wearing it. It has been a lot of fun for both me and my wife. Recently, my libido has dropped to nearly zero unless there is direct stimulation. At 66, most friends have prostate issues that prevent orgasm entirely. My testosterone might be low, so the days of my orgasms could be numbered. I never know when my final one will come, so it makes sense to enjoy them while they last.

I am losing interest in chastity now. The device feels like part of me and no longer gives any stimulation; it just sits there. My wife still enjoys the arrangement but won’t tell me to stay locked up. She says I can take it off if I want, as she will never become a domme because she loves me too much. I had hoped to decide by late October on my wedding anniversary, which is also when I usually get an orgasm, but maybe I should take a month off and then lock back up four weeks before the next anniversary. I won’t know until then. I have quit twice previously, but it never lasted long before I felt the itch to lock again.

There were a few reasons we started with chastity:

• My very high libido and uncontrollable masturbation habits
• My wife’s lack of interest in sex
• Both of us missing our previous sexual life with our girlfriend and others.

My libido has dropped significantly. Meanwhile, my wife is experiencing some of the best orgasms of her life. We have fully shifted from poly non-monogamy to full monogamy. Chastity served as a bridge between our old sex life and this new phase. Our previous lifestyle will not return due to age and location, regardless of how much we miss it. Above all, I worry that in a few years I may lose the ability to orgasm too because of medication or physical ailments. I figure stopping won’t hurt; let’s see what happens. Chances are I’ll take up chastity play again soon—perhaps even next week—but for now I am unlocked as I no longer feel the thrill of being locked in. My libido seems almost gone, so I want to observe any changes. I will likely keep posting here but not quite as often and perhaps just as long overall.:)