Female led relationships discussion

You probably already know I’m new to the chastity world. My boyfriend loves locking himself up, and he kept it a secret until I moved in. I’d spotted his device maybe once every six months without realizing it was actually part of him—so now I’ve joined the club!

Sex is wonderful. He told me he wears it because being “controlled” turns him on. The question: could this habit trace back to some sexual abuse? He’s not sure when his wearing a chastity belt began. Since humans aren’t born with these things, I’m just wondering where it started for him. Also—do you guys leave your chastity belt at home when visiting family or kids?

Thanks for reading!