Female led relationships discussion

A few months back, at my urging, I first brought up the topics of FLR and chastity with my KY (my wife). She showed interest but wasn’t completely won over. Now that she has seen me locked in my CB6000S and is getting accustomed to seeing me restrained, she seems almost giddy with delight, ideas, thoughts, and plans. She teased me by saying, “Everyone seems obsessed with Locktober, but I don’t think we need to do that.” It sounded fine. Then she added, “I actually prefer NO-vember”. This week, she has placed articles printed from the internet plainly in sight on her nightstand; they all concern themselves with “How to Punishment Spank your Husband”. She made it clear to me: “You wanted to test my limits, I think? Well, I believe we’ll spend November testing your limits.” Then she gave me that most devilish, deviant smile/smirk I have seen on her in over 30 years together. I thought this would all be fun and games, but I am coming to realize it is about to become anything but possible.