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Hi all! I've been watching from the sidelines for some time, and now feel ready to step forward a bit to say hello. I'm James. Age 35, pansexual, cisgender.…

member_d146209641 9 Sept 2026 #1

Hi all! I’ve been watching from the sidelines for some time, and now feel ready to step forward a bit to say hello. I’m James. Age 35, pansexual, cisgender. My hobbies include simulation games, tabletop and board gaming, plus baseball on TV. I am married, with our partnership being nonmonogamous right from the start. I’ve only lately started exploring chastity and femdom broadly after spending nearly all my time as a top for years. It has been quite an interesting path. I know there is much to learn here from everyone, but those who have experience sharing partners between their keyholder and others outside might relate most closely to what I’m going through now. Excited to meet you!