Female led relationships discussion

I’ve been around the block with chastity almost as long as the original CB2000 has existed. Life, as we know, loves to take us on unexpected journeys through places both desired and undesired. I’ve experimented with various devices and navigated different relationship dynamics. Right now I’m rocking a Mature Metal Jailbird that fits me perfectly. Plus, I’ve reconnected with a Domme friend who seems poised to make one of her submissives out of me. Consequently, my lock is for her enjoyment. To get ready, I put on the Jailbird last Sunday. If everything proceeds as intended, tomorrow I hand over the keys. I’m feeling a mix of anticipation and apprehension. The excitement comes from knowing she’s an exceptional Domme whom I trust. The fear stems from how receiving exactly what we ask for can sometimes be a double-edged sword. What I do know is that the Jailbird has been quite comfortable. There’s some slight discomfort when arousal hits, but overall it feels good and easy to adapt to. I will mention that throughout all my years in chastity play, I don’t remember hearing much about how confinement affects the testicles being held tight and pushed forward, or what those sensations feel like. With this snug Jailbird (and as a grower myself, so mine are compact), it feels like they are literally cupped by the device. For someone like me who wants to deepen their submission, that sensation is intriguing. So I’d love to hear your experiences with similar setups. I’ll share more updates as things progress.