Female led relationships discussion

My spouse was losing interest in our intimacy. Part of what bothered her is that I tend to be submissive, while she craves a more dominant, alpha partner vibe. She also frequently complained about my lack of attention and insufficient household chores. Nearly twelve months ago, she declared her love and intention to stay with me, but added that she needed other men to penetrate her. Her tone was serious; she even noted our pastor might not be happy with this development. This wasn’t just playful sex—strangely enough, I found myself aroused despite the situation. Chastity had always crossed my mind, though I never voiced it. So, I bought an off-the-shelf keeper and a selection of dildos and vibrators for her use. I made sure she understood how vital it was to me that she get what she needs, no matter the cost or effort. I also admitted I masturbate almost every day. That’s when she called out my selfishness and said it had to end. I’d assumed convincing her into chastity would be a negotiation on my part, but she quickly seized control, warning that my self-gratifying habits threatened our union and insisting now that I wear the device. The first one was too loose, and I worried about an obvious bulge showing through. Still, I wore it, positioning the shaft to the side inside snug briefs. Later, I ordered a sturdier model made of heavy metal featuring punishment pins.

Since beginning this lifestyle, I’ve started massaging her feet each night before bed—a habit she knows well since I have a foot fetish. She suffers from plantar fasciitis, so these massages not only please her but also relieve pain. Usually, after a thorough rubbing while she reads, I penetrate her with an 9-inch realistic dildo while licking her up and down, followed by some back rubs as she drifts off. When questioned about the arrangement, she simply asks, “what is there to dislike?”

Lately, she leaves me locked away for weeks at a time. My current record stands at 26 days straight. She feels that duration isn’t quite long enough yet and plans to test my endurance further.

There are some minor drawbacks: locating a restroom stall can be tricky since I’m unsure of my aim when standing, which adds inconvenience. Another challenge involves our young kids; I must constantly ensure the device remains concealed from their view.

As they say, watch what you wish for—my dream has become real. So far, we’re both enjoying how this dynamic benefits our marriage.