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For some folks on this forum, 72 hours might not seem like much, but as a beginner I felt it was quite lengthy. My first purchase was a Chinese Holy Trainer…

member_fc8230a745 9 Sept 2026 #1

For some folks on this forum, 72 hours might not seem like much, but as a beginner I felt it was quite lengthy. My first purchase was a Chinese Holy Trainer V2, which turned out to be decent quality for the price. Initially, I only locked up for short periods because I wanted to cum regularly. I also discovered that my ring size was too small, making long-term wear uncomfortable until I moved up one size.

Eventually, after reading enough about 24/7 chastity, I decided it was time to try it seriously. It has been almost three days since I started. Here are a few observations from this period in the cage:

  1. Porn consumption hasn’t stopped; if anything, it increased. Before, I might jerk off once or twice a day. Now that I’m locked up and unable to cum (pun intended), I find myself watching more often while getting hard inside the device.

  2. I’ve started exploring anal play with an inflatable plug I bought over a year ago—it’s my only other toy besides the cage, so I’d used it about six times previously. During the first two days of this lock-up, I played quite a bit. Just to clarify, being into penetration doesn’t mean you’re gay (more power to those who are!). Without my penis available for stimulation, I spent at least twenty minutes yesterday with that plug, pumping it up and letting air out. The fullness was wonderful, even though I couldn’t reach an orgasm through the plug alone. It reminded me of the sensation of orgasming with a plug in place; knowing I wouldn’t hit that peak made me stop forcing it.

  3. Ball trap devices offer decent security but aren’t perfect. This has sparked my interest in trying a Holy Trainer S model, which would provide a tighter fit when fully flaccid. Unless you get pierced (which is definitely not happening for me), there’s no way to make them completely secure, though it did pique my interest in getting a custom cage.

  4. I was initially hesitant about wearing the device out in public because I’m quite private and had never done any “kink” activities under regular clothes or around others. However, once locked, going out isn’t really an option anymore. It felt thrilling to know the key was back at home, meaning there was no escape even if I wanted one—this was my first time being away from it.

The device is comfortable and easy to conceal; sometimes I forget it’s there entirely. However, I haven’t spent much time with close friends yet while wearing it. I’m still worried that someone might brush against me or bump into me and feel the hard plastic, even though I can’t recall a specific incident happening when I wasn’t locked up. Consequently, I tend to keep a slightly larger distance than usual.

  1. It hasn’t become unbearable. I’ve gone 72 hours without cumming before during non-challenge periods, so now I’m curious how long I can last before reaching my breaking point. Ideally, I’d love to reach the stage where leaking precum becomes manageable.

I remain locked up with just a few hours left on the clock. Interestingly, 72 hours wasn’t my original target; it just worked out that way for this first attempt. Now I want to give my body a rest from constant wear and handle some hygiene tasks before ordering a smaller cage to try again soon.