Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Over the years we’ve lived this chastity relationship, I’ve talked with several couples and often seen things just ‘peter’ out (no pun intended). Mostly driven by the submissive male’s desire to be included in the bond, there is a big responsibility on the Female to ensure chastity remains sustainable. Without that effort, the man under lock can end up isolated within his own wants. Maintaining this dynamic requires full commitment. Frequently, the woman overlooks that for her partner, this is a genuine lifestyle decision rather than merely another sexual play. That’s my perspective; I know it varies for everyone else, but as a dominant woman, creativity seems to be the key to keeping things balanced.