Female led relationships discussion

my wife/KH and I were essentially running a FLR before I even got locked up, though we didn’t notice it. She controls all the finances. She pays the bills and checks with me on any expense over roughly $20. When we purchased our current home, she selected it without my knowledge. It’s jointly owned, but she led the buying process. We’ve realized this dynamic suits us perfectly and have brought that structure into our personal life by having me enter chastity under her KH authority. Things are great for both of us. Before I got locked up around August this year, our sex life was nearly non-existent. Lights out, missionary position, 3-4 minutes, turn over and sleep—no real passion involved. And that only happened about once every six months. Since then, we’ve been much closer. Yes, I have become more submissive and devoted to her. I pleasure her almost nightly with my mouth or hand (she prefers my fingers by the way). With BION—we have PIV roughly every other week, and it’s intensely erotic. She might offer to unlock me if I do a particularly good job pleasing her. (She still loves PIV and my large cock, so I don’t expect that to change.) Recently she made a deal with me: on 12/2/17, I was told I had finished orgasms for the year and shouldn’t bring it up before January. A couple of days ago, she said I could get unlocked and jack off in front of her if I agreed to lock back up until the end of January. Alternatively, she would blow me if I stayed locked until the end of February. Or, she’d allow PIV if I remained locked until the end of March. I was incredibly turned on, but I haven’t yielded…yet. LOL. Overall, I strongly recommend FLR and chastity to any long-married couple, especially if intimacy has faded. It’s been wonderful for us—we’re closer more often and happier than we’ve been in years. Ironically, from the outside, no one would guess it. Neither of us cares about other types of bondage or punishment or crossdressing. We appear very vanilla to friends and family. But I believe we will continue our unique form of kinkiness for a long time.