Female led relationships discussion

Chatting last night with @Breathe and @thefemdecided, a couple of subbies entered the room and I was immediately insisting on them calling me Madam and the two Ladies. Both of whom rejected the suggestion. At the same time, I was scening with jack, a long and protracted Mistress/slave scenario. The Ladies who do this will attest to the level and depth of emotional investment a Wife needs to expend when bringing the reality to the D/s relationship. I was pretty much in method mode last night and in my mind, the subbies had an obligation to show full respect and deference to us ladies. Hours later, my mind was back in ‘normal Mandy’ mode and the stark reminder of the emotional investment and energy that I personally execute during one of our D/s scenes and how that leaks out when conversing with other Ladies. Power to @Breathe and @thefemdecided for staying respectful to their own way of working, sorry Ladies if I dragged you in without your approval. So readers, how deep are your emotional investments?

My emotional investment is absolute in our female-controlled marriage. That said, my wife should and does assume the responsibilities involved with being the dominant partner. Respect and deference must be earned and, in our case, is. The moment that changes, I am gone.