Female led relationships discussion

What drives our behavior within these lifestyles? On a personal level, I keep uncovering new sides of myself; I act dominant toward my husband and submissive to my boyfriend, while confusingly operating as a switch with women. And if I slip into submissive mode when dealing with a woman, that essentially overrides all other personas. Bitch be crazy! When Annie (sissy) stayed with us for some time, she revealed another layer of our dynamic. I now view sissys as superior to caged males. However, I believe we are all open to the energies around us, and if we click, our main persona can shift in an instant. For years, I considered myself a stonewall Domme, jack is my witness;). The more I bond with someone, the more facets of myself I seem to find. Versatile? Perhaps! Crazy? Likely!