Female led relationships discussion

Here is my favorite list of activities:

1. Suck a nice cock
2. Keep my boyfriend orgasm free
3. Have my ass, pussy and feet workshiped
4. Being fuck
5. Tease and denial
6. Lick pussy
7. CBT
8. Humilliate him
9. Punish him
10. Been humilliate and punish by a woman. So, as you can see I really love to show my superiority to my boyfriend, but at the same time, it was a shame that other things that I love to do, mostly the ones that involve a cock, were more infrequent due to his chastity. Two years ago our sex life was based on his cock, although he was in chastity his cock was getting a lot of attention and he seemed to be commanding, like I have heard here “Topping from the bottom”. A little more than a year ago that change, I stoped him once I realize this and things are going much better now. That made a lot more difficult for me to be without doing things that I love to do because of his chastity. Four months ago I was watching some porn and find a nice video, one girl taking a big hard cock. My boyfriend caught me masturbating to it and ask me if it turns me on and I asnwered “That cock turns me on, it’s just perfect!” and he leave alone to continue. The next day he told me that if I really want to be with a cock like that I only have to go out and search for it, that he would be happy if I’m happy, that he knew how much I missed sex and have a cock to play with. I haven’t cuckold him yet but it is in my plans now and I am a litte bit nervous about it. So, I was wonderig, what do your KH/Mistress/Wife’s do to deal with her desire? I mean, that a man be chaste doesn’t mean that his partner have to as well, am I right? Because if you are on a truely FLR, she doesn’t have to settle for being fuck with a strap on or have to give pleasure to get hers fucking his chastity boy. It’s just my opinion and I learned that a few months ago.