Female led relationships discussion

Having joined CM just yesterday, I am impressed with how many men here have managed to find women in their everyday lives who are happy to identify their relationships as FLR. I suppose this dynamic has become more common in the modern age. But looking at the number of men here who have found KHs in their everday lives… I guess the truth is many have been together, even married for years before a FLR or KHing situation develops. I just wish it was easier to find a woman who would be up for entering a FLR from day dot. Because I’m at a stage where I don’t want anything else. Has anyone here got a story like that? Where they found someone who was clear from the start that she was in charge full stop.