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In case you haven’t read anything about us, we started this almost 2 years ago. I mentioned I was sexually submissive, and wanted her to control me…

member_7b657ca028 9 Sept 2026 #1

In case you haven’t read anything about us, we started this almost 2 years ago. I mentioned I was sexually submissive, and wanted her to control me sexually. I handed over the key and she ran with it the rest of the way. Fast forward to this morning. I was putting stuff back in the bathroom, we had just painted and fixed it up a bit, and she saw a set of chastity keys in a cabinet. She said “you hiding keys on me?” I explained that I had half a dozen different chastity devices in the bathroom each with keys, and I probably threw them in the cabinet just so they wouldn’t get lost(the room I emptied the bathroom into is a pit with bathroom stuff all over the place). She smiled and said she’s keeping an eye on me, “I want you caged up and locked away,” This made me smile. Although she knows that I made both keys into pendants, her wearing the one and her hiding the larger more showy one, she is still concerned about my ability to unlock freely. We had done away with emergency key a long time ago, besides medical emergency there just wasn’t any reason for it, and the odds of needing to remove it within minutes was extremely low. She thought that if I could just use an emergency key any time I wanted (even if she could see I tampered with it) took away from her actually controlling it. So here we are almost 2 years later and knowing I can’t get out of my cage is still very important to her. She even took the keys she found just in case lol! I guess it means a lot to me that it’s important to her, especially now that my schedule has changed, my time with my child has changed, and our routines have been completely nixed until we figure something out. Anyway, just wanted to share, especially since so many have keyholders that are casual with the keys, leave them around, forget where they are etc. I’m very greatful @Mistress Amanté cares enough about me and us, that she guards them like a wildcat!