Female led relationships discussion

I bring this up because it’s an issue I grapple with. I adore my Mistress and am ready to accept indefinite denial (whether the belt stays on or off), yet she doesn’t get sexually pleased very frequently.

We engage in rough play about once a week, but typically she does something to me—usually CBT involving electric shocks or flastration—and receives anal. Most of the time, she allows me to have an orgasm mainly so she avoids the pressure of needing to perform… I mean, having her own orgasm herself. And honestly, I know I’m fortunate to have a partner who is into this lifestyle.

I realize that in a perfect world, the answer is simply ‘how often she wants.’ That works for me; I’d love it if we could do it every chance we get… lol.

But I am curious: how frequently does your locked-up man pleasure you? I use the word ‘allow’ because if we had our way, we would be pleasuring each other all the time. Nightly? Weekly? Monthly…