Female led relationships discussion

I wrote about this in more detail on my blog, but I’ve been following another blog whose dynamic really catches my eye. She makes him do things. Yes, you can’t truly force anyone to do these tasks, but the truth is she has high expectations and won’t accept less than that. I’ve been considering this sort of ‘consenting non-consent’ for a while now. Partly because I’ve read about it, but also because I see how easily she could raise the bar even higher and compel me to act.

I don’t fully agree with everything though—like being banned from the same couch as her, becoming financially dependent, curtsying, or generally being treated as inferior. However, I find her concepts of male feminization, humiliation, and obedience very erotic. I’m not sure if it’s something I would ultimately want; what I do know is that having orders given to me—even when they make me uncomfortable—is arousing. Perhaps it’s the vulnerability, or perhaps finding freedom in losing the choice. Sometimes I wonder how my life might look if she pushed this further… keeping me feminine at home all day long, making me perform various tasks while she holds photos of our exposure as leverage or threats over me. She raises some strong points regarding her version of an FLR, but maintaining that intensity long-term would be quite a challenge. Part of me desires this strict, no-nonsense service, while another part thinks I’d start getting grumpy about it within a month lol. So can you handle being compelled into duty and complying because you know it benefits us both? Or would such power eventually push you away despite your contentment?