Female led relationships discussion

I sat down for a serious conversation with my wife not too long ago. She doesn’t share all of my more unusual tastes, but I came around to her way of thinking and laid out my feelings: which fantasies could live without being acted upon regularly, which ones were essential and why, and what I expected from her (I’ve always been quite attentive and submissive, while she prefers a simpler life, so realistically she didn’t have many demands for me).

After some thought, we decided to start a Female Led Relationship. It’s been thrilling, exciting, arousing, and slightly daunting for me. We established several ground rules for now.

Rule #1 is straightforward: she is the Head of Household and the only adult in our marriage. Her word is law; I must not whine, backtalk, argue, or complain. Essentially, I am a child and addressed as such at times. This isn’t about fetishistic adult baby play but rather a factual reality—she is the woman in charge, and I’m the child being told what’s happening. I still get consulted on major decisions like our future and finances, but as head of household, her word is final. As an adult, she has the right to make any decision she sees fit without me.

We haven’t signed a formal contract yet, but other rules have evolved based on prior experimentation and reading about what other couples do:

• I wear panties only. I’ve thrown away my men’s underwear in favor of women’s briefs. Plain white ones are out; they must feature girly colors or patterns.
• No pants at home. I stay in a shirt and panties, and she has discussed getting me nightgowns.
• 24/7 Chastity except during sex. This is tough for me but was my idea. With a higher sex drive than hers and used to frequent masturbation, now, aside from weekly cleanings, I am only released for sexual activity.
• Spankings are now regular. I receive punishment spanks when earned, plus a weekly Maintenance one every Monday (as a treat, I chose the day). She has discovered she really enjoys spanking me.

I hope we can gradually refine this setup as time goes on.

Not sure where it’s heading next, but I was both excited and scared to share!

Hey there LiL, Congratulations on achieving what others only dream of. That old adage about "being careful what you wish for" is coming screeching around the corner and slamming its brakes right in front of you, I’d guess. Well done! Enjoy the ride, and I hope it’s one that doesn’t stop for another round of tickets. Keep us posted!