Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

“During my first year in chastity I was acting like the boss from below, constantly asking when it would be right for me to release. My main goal was usually staying locked past two weeks. Last year I used an app to record everything. This time around though, I’m just going by feel. I don’t really want to cum because I’m afraid having an orgasm will mess with my submissive mindset.” Wondering how it’s working out for you all.