Female led relationships discussion

First let me share what happened and then ask how things work in your Household. Yesterday my six-year-old son caused quite a bit of irritation which put me in a terrible mood. There was some disagreement regarding the handling of our son afterward, sending me into a grumpy state. I left the scene but made sure not to touch my mobile phone. I needed to calm down and reorder my thoughts, but there was significant friction with my KH.. At one point she called my name several times and I didn’t answer. Eventually, I answered and said - I don’t want to hear you. So in short, I was nasty toward her. She went upstairs to bathe the kids (usually a joint responsibility) and once they were watching their 20 minutes of TV, she came down. She ordered me into the small room behind the kitchen. I knew what was coming but the sensation and feeling were so strange. I was still angry at her. But when she said - you come, go in that room. I lowered my head and did as told. Then she told me to put down my pants and really went to town with the riding crop. She explained what each hit was for, as is usual, and then at one point I disagreed with her. That felt weird but I couldn’t let her strike me for that specific thing. It had to do with limits for our son so I turned around and said that isn’t the right setting to discuss this, which almost stopped punishment. (I might have received one more hit) Result of punishment: My attitude changed and I helped out much more than before, and we were close again. However, the last part left a stain. In hindsight, I should have just endured the punishment and found another moment to talk about it calmly. So now the question. Does or did that happen to any of you where you disobey during punishment or disagree? Do you sometimes flat out refuse punishment, do you regret it afterward? Here is my take. I am happy that I obeyed and took punishment but I will not push back. Her session, her rules for what she punishes.