Female led relationships discussion

Does anyone here have any type of plans for a femdom relationship to motivate your sub to work out lose weight and put on muscle? I have some ideas but I am curious what some of you guys have tried in the past. I want to introduce my wife to this idea. I want to get back into shape as I once was she used to love my old body and it made all her girlfriends jealous I want to get back to that again.. Now I only need to lose maybe 15 pounds but its really hard when you are lazy sometimes I need motivation maybe some incentives or something.. any and all ideas are appreciated thanks:)