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I'm seeking advice from either Dommes/KH figures or subs on how to manage my sub's post-orgasm blahs. For a few days after, he drifts into his own world and…

member_c0e9e7394f 10 Sept 2026 #1

I’m seeking advice from either Dommes/KH figures or subs on how to manage my sub’s post-orgasm blahs.

For a few days after, he drifts into his own world and focuses entirely on work. Slowly, he gets that twitch in his groin which pulls him back around into his submissive role. I’m fine with some distance during this time, but I’ve noticed that if I authorize several orgasms close together while he’s blah, I lose the desire to bring him back in or revamp our dynamic. Or rather, I give up trying because it takes way too much effort.

Any ideas or suggestions on keeping things interesting without feeling lonely?

member_ae589a176c 11 Sept 2026 #2

Maybe don't give him any!:)