Female led relationships discussion

To sum it up: “When one person holds dominance over another, it maintains harmony and makes the bond more stable and predictable. This setup allows both people to gain from their connection. Still, being dominant tends to be a better arrangement for the dom than for the sub, since the subordinate foots a larger share of the bill for keeping peace. If you’re in a weaker spot and probably won’t beat a tougher rival, accepting submission is fine—as long as it’s temporary and helps build your strength or power while you wait. A submissive person should be patient, but giving up completely can spell doom.” Do you side with this view, or do you feel the Sub gets more out of it? Or maybe in your situation, both sides gain equally?