Chastity in vanilla life discussion

My spouse and I are big fans of our kinky dynamic and want to sustain it every single day. That said, we don’t currently have that exact setup, as life is keeping us quite busy right now.

I really enjoy being locked up, but previously I’ve found my enthusiasm waning when I couldn’t get any intimate moments with her.

I’ve proposed figuring out ways to keep myself occupied, frustrated, and sexually charged during the gaps between our together time.

If anyone else is currently experiencing or has experienced a similar setup, or simply has some good advice, I’d love to chat about it. Thanks