Female led relationships discussion

As my introduction noted, I don’t live with my sub or share a traditional relationship. Please note that I refer to my bitch as ‘she’ because finding pleasure in degrading him is part of the fun. To maximize my control over her—particularly since she holds a position of authority at work—I prefer to emasculate her as much as possible. This involves having her wear women’s panties and hold-ups beneath her suits, along with removing hair from every inch of her body. Occasionally, I’ve had her paint her nails too. I really like seeing her in feminine clothing while we sleep; she has bought some very ladylike nightwear for this purpose. The satin options are particularly effective at driving her crazy during chastity, especially because her sensitivity is heightened to the point where precum leaks out and she repeatedly begs for release. The fact that she lives in a shared house adds another layer of excitement, as there’s always a chance someone might catch us. I assume this sort of thing is common in Chastity? Does anyone else do things with their sub under their nose while remaining largely unnoticed by the outside world? I enjoy degrading her. Even when she holds the superior position over me at work, I still feel like I’m the one in charge.:)