Female led relationships discussion

Thinking about how various activities deepen my submission to my Wife/Mistress, I find a scale from 1 to 10 quite useful. Level 1 represents the lowest sense of surrender, while level 10 means being completely immersed in subspace. For example:

Levels 1-2: Wearing daily chastity gear. It serves as a constant little reminder that my wife is in charge, regardless of how far I am from home.

Levels 3-4: Light CBT during the day at home. Occasionally getting a slap on the balls by my wife to remind me she truly holds authority.

Levels 5-7: The Mistress causing an erection inside the chastity device, which is somewhat uncomfortable and alternates with ball slapping as she gives daily instructions. This gets me very deep into subspace and makes me willing to do anything.

Levels 8-9: Bondage combined with spanking; I sexually satisfy her while being denied, whether through oral sex, hand stimulation, or strapon use for her pleasure alone, ensuring my full focus remains on her needs.

Level 10: Taking the strap-on internally causes a complete attitude shift in me and leaves me as pliable clay in her hands.

I find this scale helpful. Does it help others think about their female domination experiences? What does your experience look like on that 1 to 10 scale? Is it useful for Mistresses training their submissives?