Female led relationships discussion

Hi all I’m wondering how you all see and feel about respect within your FLRs. Much like many others, I (the man) started mine off, and we’ve been pretty transparent regarding our likes and dislikes; my preferences lean a bit more ‘extreme’ than hers do. I won’t dive into the specific differences since they aren’t crucial here and most are fairly standard for this community. For anything she isn’t comfortable with, I haven’t pushed or asked about it unless she brings it up myself because I’m quite content with our current setup. What bothers me is the sense that she might lose respect for me over time given that our lifestyle allows me to occupy humiliating positions quite often. Does anyone else deal with this issue, and what strategies do you use? Also, any women in FLRs who want to offer their perspective would be greatly appreciated. Thanks