Female led relationships discussion

I think women feel a kind of “relational power” when they realize they are erotically treasured and admired—becoming the focus of a man’s deepest desire. Henry Kissinger captured this perfectly with his famous quote: “Power is the ultimate aphrodisiac” (in other words, what really turns women on is the man’s sexual yearning for them). When a guy becomes so captivated by a woman that he will do whatever it takes to claim her, when he finds himself “enslaved” by his endless passion, who truly holds the reins in their relationship? The answer seems clear: no matter how dominant an alpha male might appear, his intense need for her ultimately gives her control over the dynamic.