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Greetings to all: I stumbled into this space from a discussion on one of the chastity mailing lists I follow. My primary identity is submissive/slave,…

member_827e471d22 27 Aug 2026 #1

Greetings to all: I stumbled into this space from a discussion on one of the chastity mailing lists I follow. My primary identity is submissive/slave, though my confidence and outspoken nature often cause people to be confused. I’ve dabbled in many areas after entering BDSM through the nomadic leather community back in the early 80s. For me, leather has been more of a spiritual practice and outlet than just an erotic pursuit (though that doesn’t mean I lack interest in those aspects). I first encountered chastity devices in the early 90s and have used them intermittently since then. Currently, my primary device is a full goenthals belt, which is giving me some trouble; I’m considering making one myself. My interests range from crafts to literature and writing. Looking forward to engaging with you all here. Best regards, Theadoules P.S. Photos will follow soon, but they’ll be discreet as I still need to keep things private.

member_114700d141 27 Aug 2026 #2

Hello and welcome! Thank you for registering; I hope we see you more often here. Could you share a photo of that goenthals belt?