Female led relationships discussion

Like many of you know, I’ve only recently entered this lifestyle—specifically in November 2017. I’ve picked up a great deal by reading through the forums and participating in discussions. Recently, though, I’ve been pondering: We understand that our subs act on our behalf, but what does that really imply? They obey orders, stay locked out, deny themselves, and cater to our enjoyment. But has any sub truly undergone a life transformation because of it? The one with me certainly has. Here’s how. When we first met, she had just begun working at my company. I was fresh back from maternity leave, looking tired, dowdy, and heavyset. After giving her some direction, she quickly realized that I possessed the capacity to get a grown man in a superior position thrilled by being looked down upon and corrected—something she had desired and lacked for ages. During this period, we developed a friendship with deep roots. Gradually, she helped me feel better about who I am and pushed me to put more care into my look and demeanor at the office. I stepped up, and ever since, I haven’t regretted it. My new look doesn’t just boost my confidence; it makes me appear and feel like I’m in charge. Others are beginning to take notice for all the right reasons. @LatexMiss deserves credit for this change. The point is, while we hold the reins, our subs have assisted us far more than they might realize… LP