Introductions discussion

Hi! I’m brand new here, so much so that I haven’t gotten an avatar yet. I stumbled upon this site via Fetlife and took a look around—it seems absolutely fantastic! So… as for me… I’ve never really been in a role where someone was clearly dominant over me. I spent years in a long-term relationship where I held the reins sexually (which worked out wonderfully, and I loved it), but that concluded last year. That gave me plenty of time to ponder what it would be like being submissive or locked up under chastity by someone who seemed like a stunning domme. It’s something I’ve always kept secret: a turn-on/fetish/experience I never shared with others. Just thinking about it or fantasizing (sp?) knocked me for a loop and drove me mad. So, once everything settled down, I made some changes in my life, including this aspect which feels like it’s here to stay forever… Hello!