Female led relationships discussion

The pattern continues. I come up with an idea and my wife’s initial reaction is generally ‘no’ followed a few days later by ‘well, maybe we should try it’. Most recently it was a petsmart dog collar with a smartphone control app. We tested it out (12 different levels of shock) and then we went to dinner. To the casual observer, we looked like a couple sitting at a bar with the woman on her smart phone. The reality was she was driving me crazy as I fought to maintain composure. As for levels, a 4 will grab your attention. At 6, it’s really hard not to react. Didn’t go any higher and, if it’s linear, a 12 would be extremely painful. She really enjoyed it and she zapped me all the way home. I’m turning into a pain slut and she has a mildly sadistic side that is emerging. I don’t think either of this knew this was in us when we started. The collar will likely be a novelty. Her favorite is the riding crop and it only takes about 5 minutes before she’s soaking wet and fully turned on.