Female led relationships discussion

I’ve been wondering what cues you’ve picked up on in yourself or your partner as Topspace or subspace kicks in.

For me, my hands start to twitch. I also find myself grinding my teeth occasionally. My voice drops a notch and becomes more direct… gentle but authoritative and steady. My breathing settles into a rhythm, and I lock onto what I’m doing with intense clarity. It feels like that runner’s high sensation. The rest of the world fades away; nothing else matters except using him for my enjoyment and doing exactly as I please. It creates this lovely alternate state.

As for him, his facial expressions soften… though furrowed brows are typical when he battles against the edge. His breathing catches while mine smooths out into a regular pattern. There have been instances where I actually had to prompt him to breathe because he gets so overwhelmed that it just halts, ha. My favorite indicator, however, is how his pupils expand as he bottoms out. During every session we share, there’s a moment when the dynamic grips tightly enough that I can visibly see endorphins flooding through him. Watching his eyes widen gives me a contented smile each time it happens. You really can’t fake that.

What signs have you noticed?