Female led relationships discussion

It’s not always simple when your long-term partner and lover becomes a sub, especially at times! Particularly when he gets alpha male twinges from his upbringing and breeding lol Recently I’ve been getting grumpily barked at if I decide that I don’t want to do what Pet is complaining about right then. For example, this morning he decided that instead of cooking breakfast, he wanted to tackle the kitchen, which I only found out when he asked me a second time if I could give him a hand…And when I pointed out that I really didn’t feel like sorting through old clothes or cleaning the kitchen so early in the day because I have virtually NO energy, he got snappy and grumpy. I don’t think he realizes that although I am ill at the moment and still trying to find the energy to actually help with things around the house (I believe it’s only fair that I set a good example for my son) That if I wanted to, I could have him do EVERYTHING, without helping him AT ALL. I get huffed at or “Fine…” I cannot wait to put him back in a bloody device again; there will be much less testosterone to deal with. He also doesn’t seem to realize that when he has these macho grumpy moments, it affects my mood and I don’t feel like dominating him or playing with him when he makes me feel awful. I am trying to make the point clear that I want this 24-7 arrangement, so it shouldn’t matter whether we are out in town or at home; he must speak to me respectfully regardless. GAH.:spider: It must be his time of the month.