Introductions discussion

I’m Peter from the Netherlands and have been lurking on this site for about two weeks. Today I finally created an account because, to me, my ‘journey’ has officially begun. Yesterday I received my Chinese cage and have worn it continuously for over 30 hours now.

I realized that both our sexual connection and personal relationship weren’t quite right. A few weeks ago, I started researching FLR (Female Led Relationship) dynamics and began making more of an effort with household chores to please her.

Through the lens of FLR, I discovered chastity. From what I’ve gathered, it often benefits relationships by nudging the male into a less dominant position, which can improve how partners interact. I really hope this works for us too. The only hiccup is that I showed my cage to my wife this morning, and she looks slightly confused about what comes next.

As a man, I’m also curious about the kink aspect: teasing myself and pushing toward frustration without crossing over.

Anyway, that’s my introduction! I look forward to reading more here and hopefully getting clearer on what I truly want.