Female led relationships discussion

I had a funny chat lately. I was online with someone who told me, “You’re the most dominant woman I’ve ever talked to.”

It struck me that I don’t really dominate anyone, even if they believe I do.

I just state what I want. If someone can deliver, great; if not, they get sent away and I wait for someone who fits my needs. I won’t waste energy pretending to be dominant or trying to break people down.

Perhaps the core of dominance is simply knowing your desire and having the confidence to voice it.