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Difficulties with wearing a device? discussion

Hello, I'm experiencing a few issues with the chastity device I wear right now. I'd appreciate any advice you might have. I gave chastity a try some time…

member_ae952a9401 11 Sept 2026 #1

Hello, I’m experiencing a few issues with the chastity device I wear right now. I’d appreciate any advice you might have.

I gave chastity a try some time ago and enjoyed it. However, around night three or four, I consistently dealt with cuts, bruises on my skin, and worries about hygiene and overall health.

I purchased a stainless steel model similar to the CB6000 (though since it’s likely made in China, I’m not entirely certain of its quality…).

It works well during the day, but nighttime erections cause me trouble. Being uncut means my skin is the main culprit. I either use the “stocking method” where everything goes inside, or I retract the foreskin slightly before locking it up. With the stocking method, my foreskin pushes out through the front opening, leading to constant cuts and pain. If I pull it back instead, it gathers around the tube’s entrance and gives me those same nicks. In both scenarios, during night erections, my penis swells and bulges outward through the side ventilation holes. The edges there aren’t fully rounded, so they create wounds too. The swelling is quite forceful, stretching the skin until it bruises or even breaks. I experimented with various methods, such as sealing the front opening with tape or bandages… but they didn’t help much, which led me to stop wearing it.

Two years later, I decided to give it another shot. This time I lasted four days and five nights, yet the problems persisted. So I’m considering a different model. I’d love your thoughts or suggestions.

I’m thinking about choosing between two styles:

  • The device featuring spiral-shaped rounded bars.
  • The one with straight bars.

The first option looks superior to me personally, but I worry my skin might still get caught and pinched in the smaller gaps. The second style seems more forgiving for that issue and appears easier to clean without removing it entirely.

Thank you very much for any help or advice! Best regards, Memorexxx