Female led relationships discussion

I’ve noticed that several women who act dominant will go to great lengths to please their subs. It isn’t just the sub leading from behind; the dominant one senses what her partner desires and provides it before he even asks.

I suspect most of these women are adopting a dominant persona primarily to satisfy their partners.

Also, I believe dominants view someone like me as an unpleasant man-hater because my goal is to be pleased and served. I’m not here to cater to the sub’s whims. This doesn’t mean I dislike seeing the sub happy; rather, his happiness should come from him pleasing me, not the other way around.

I don’t think there’s anything wrong with being ‘too nice,’ but I do wonder if subs are truly getting what they want when their dominant partner is overly accommodating.

If we assume that many self-proclaimed submissives aren't actually submissive by nature, then having a "dominant" who frequently indulges their various kinks might make them happier than an actual Dom would. The "sub" receives an experience closer to their fantasy rather than reality, and the fantasy is what they crave. If they were forced into pure reality, they might be disappointed that not all of their kinks are systematically explored and catered to as if everything revolves around their wants and "needs".