Introductions discussion

I adore the vibe of this place! The blend between erotic and introspective sides of chastity devices feels really distinctive. My first chastity cage was the CB 3000, back about 15 years. I was single then and loved doing online role play. Around that same time, I got involved with a religious group where celibacy was also highlighted, but for more wholesome reasons. That’s why I appreciate how this forum juxtaposes those elements so well. There is both an emotional and lustful quality to this whole mysterious subject. Now I am married. My erotic interest in chastity has been something I indulged in alone at my computer after my wife went to sleep. It was a shameful secret, even from her. For many years of our marriage, I felt it was unacceptable to show vulnerability or anything less than macho traits. In 2018, my marriage started shifting toward FLR and I am just amazed by the change. It began so simply! I introduced the sexual technique of Karezza, and basically stopped having an orgasm during intercourse. I admitted that I watched porn and masturbated in secret. Her reaction was strong disapproval; she really did not like any secret masturbation at all. By using Karezza, I remained in a state of arousal and doted on her. It is a cliché on Femdom sites, but I even started doing more chores! I showed her a metal chastity cage I had bought secretly months prior, and instead of disgust or shock, my wife expressed concern that the weight of the metal would stretch out my balls. She wanted to find a lighter type! I found a clear bio-resin one that she likes. It is light and she thinks it won’t stretch my scrotum (the metal feels more comfortable to me, but she prefers the lighter option). It is not 24/7 (yet). In the last few weeks, 80% of the time I wear no pants or underwear in the house (I keep a shirt on) and when she is out, I put the cage on for her to see when she comes home. See honey? No more secret masturbation! More foot rubs for you!